朋友*friend

最近跟阿木时常谈起友情的话题。
recently, ah muk and i keep discussing issues about friendship.

在大学快要3年了，所谓大学就是一个迷你社会，
i've been studying in the uni for almost 3 years. well, as said, uni is like a mini society.

这3年里当然我也看了很多。
i have seen a lot, throughout these years.

学到了很多。
and of course, learnt a lot.

大学生活让我学会了怎么样对自己好。
uni life reminds me of treating myself better.

因为，你对人家好，人家也未必对你好。
because, even though you're good to people, people maybe not as good.

将心比心，在大学算是罕见了，可想而知，在现实社会更是寥寥无几。
being good to all people is already considered rare in uni, thus it's worse in the real society.

我们的人生，可以分成很多阶段，
life can be divided up to different stages,

而不同阶段，会有不同的人出现，也有不同的人离开。
people come and go during these stages.

这样想，或许看得比较开。
by thinking like this, you will be more optimistic.

=)

感谢所有在不同阶段出现的朋友。
thanks to all friends who were/are/gonna be involved in my life.





p/s - 谁是真心对我好，谁不是，我还分得出。 =)




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